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Dating Like a Gentleman: 20 Ways to Show Respect, Kindness, and Class

12/10/2024

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The other day, one of my sons asked me, “Hey, when’s your anniversary again?” I told him the date, and he lit up. “That’s the same day my girlfriend and I made it official! Do you think that’s a good sign?” He was so earnest and hopeful, and I couldn’t help but laugh at how sweet it was.
While I love his enthusiasm, it also reminded me how important these early stages of a relationship are—not just for making it “official” but for laying the groundwork for kindness, respect, and good old-fashioned thoughtfulness. So, to help my sons—and any other young men out there who want to treat their dates right—I’ve put together a list of tips for dating like a true gentleman. These aren’t just about making a great impression (though they will); they’re about showing respect and being the kind of person someone would be proud to date.
Here’s the playbook. Let’s dive in.
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Alright, boys, here's the ultimate guide to being thoughtful, kind, and setting yourself up for success in relationships. Trust Momma, if you follow these, you’ll not only make her smile but also feel good about yourself. Let’s go:
  1. Be upfront about the plan. First dates should be simple and mutual. Pick a place together. Surprises are cute later, not now when you don’t know her tastes yet.
  2. Be early. If you’re not five minutes early, you’re late. Being on time shows you respect her and value her time.
  3. Open doors. Every single one—car doors, restaurant doors, all of them. This isn’t about “old-fashioned manners”; it’s about being thoughtful.
  4. Compliment her. Find something you genuinely appreciate—her smile, her outfit, her laugh—and let her know. Authenticity is key.
  5. Dress the part. You don’t need to wear a suit, but look like you put effort into your appearance. It speaks volumes.
  6. Smell good. A little cologne goes a long way. If she notices your scent hours later, you’re doing it right.
  7. No phones. Stay present. Checking your phone says, “I’d rather be somewhere else,” and that’s not the vibe you want.
  8. Lead the conversation. Ask her questions, listen, and respond. Show interest in her thoughts, dreams, and what makes her tick.
  9. Smile and make eye contact. It makes you approachable and shows you’re paying attention.
  10. Make her laugh. Humor is one of the best ways to connect. Don’t try too hard; just be yourself and keep it light.
  11. Order an appetizer. Sharing food breaks the ice. It’s an easy way to feel more relaxed and casual.
  12. Handle sensitive topics with care. If exes come up, keep it short and mature: “That relationship taught me a lot about what I’m looking for.” It’s about showing growth, not airing grievances.
  13. Be honest about your intentions. Whether you’re looking for a relationship or just getting to know someone, be upfront. Kindness is clarity.
  14. Pay for the date. Always. It’s not about money; it’s about being generous and thoughtful.
  15. Be protective, not overbearing. Walk her to her car, open the door, and follow the “street-side rule.” Show her she’s safe with you.
  16. Ask about her world. If she mentions her family, friends, or kids, listen and ask follow-up questions. Being curious about her life shows you’re not self-centered.
  17. Express gratitude. At the end of the night, thank her for spending time with you. Thoughtfulness leaves a lasting impression.
  18. Be kind to everyone. How you treat the server, valet, or anyone else you encounter reflects who you are. Kindness is never optional.
  19. Don’t rush. Respect her boundaries, and don’t pressure her into anything. A great relationship builds on trust and mutual respect.
  20. Follow up with care. Text her when you get home to say you had a great time and would love to see her again. Leave her smiling before she sleeps.
Remember, dating is about connection, not perfection. Treat her the way you’d want someone to treat your sister, and always show the best of yourself.

Getting to Know Her World: Thoughtful Questions That Show You Care

​After sharing the importance of showing genuine interest in someone’s life, you might be wondering how to keep the conversation flowing naturally. This is where thoughtful questions come in. Asking the right questions not only shows you’re listening but also makes her feel valued and understood. So, here are some great conversation starters to help you connect and learn more about her world.
Here are some thoughtful, engaging questions you can ask to show genuine interest in her world:
About Family:
  1. “What’s the best advice you’ve ever gotten from a family member?”
  2. “Do you have any siblings? What’s your favorite memory with them?”
  3. “What kind of traditions did your family have growing up?”
  4. “Who in your family do you think you’re most like?”
  5. “What’s your favorite way to spend time with your family now?”
About Friends:
  1. “Who’s your best friend, and how did you meet?”
  2. “What’s the funniest thing your friends have ever done together?”
  3. “What’s something your friends would say about you if I asked them?”
  4. “Do you and your friends have any fun traditions or hobbies you do together?”
  5. “What’s the best trip or adventure you’ve ever taken with your friends?”
About Kids (if applicable):
  1. “What’s something your kids have done recently that made you laugh?”
  2. “What’s your favorite thing about being a mom?”
  3. “Do your kids have any hobbies or activities they’re really into?”
  4. “What’s something special you and your kids do together?”
  5. “What’s the best parenting advice you’ve ever gotten?”
About Her World in General:
  1. “What’s something you’re really proud of in your life right now?”
  2. “Who inspires you the most, and why?”
  3. “What’s something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the chance to yet?”
  4. “If you could have dinner with any three people, alive or not, who would you pick?”
  5. “What’s a little thing in life that brings you the most joy?”
These questions keep the conversation light yet meaningful, showing her that you’re listening and interested in who she truly is.
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Dating is all about connection, respect, and just enough charm to keep her smiling long after the date ends. Follow these tips, and you’ll be on your way to being the kind of guy moms write blog posts about (in a good way).
And remember, boys, if you ever get stuck, just ask yourself: “Would Mom approve?” If the answer is no, it’s probably time to rethink your strategy. Now go out there, smell amazing, and make me proud.
#GentlemanGoals #YouGotThis #MomKnowsBest
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Baseball Mom Bag Must-Haves

7/6/2024

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​Hey baseball moms! ⚾️ Whether you’re cheering for little league stars or high school sluggers, here are your must-haves for the ultimate baseball mom bag. Let’s keep it fun, organized, and ready for anything!

Little League Players (In-Town Games)
  1. Snacks Galore: Kids get hungry fast! Pack granola bars, fruit snacks, and goldfish crackers.
  2. Wipes and Hand Sanitizer: For sticky hands and post-game cleanups.
  3. Mini First Aid Kit: Band-aids for those inevitable scrapes and bruises.
  4. Extra Water Bottles: Hydration is key, and kids always misplace their bottles.
  5. Sun Protection: Sunscreen, hats, and sunglasses. Keep those little faces safe from sunburn.
  6. Blanket or Stadium Seat: Comfort is king, especially on those hard bleachers.
Little League Players (Travel Tournaments)
  1. Portable Charger: Keep your phone juiced up for all those game updates and photos.
  2. Cooler Bag: For extra drinks, sandwiches, and maybe a sneaky treat for mom.
  3. Entertainment: Coloring books, small toys, or a tablet for siblings.
  4. Change of Clothes: Mud, grass, and snacks make for messy uniforms.
  5. Travel Pillow: Naps in the car are inevitable, and comfort is key.
  6. Trash Bags: For dirty clothes, trash, or surprise spills.
Teen Players (In-Town Games)
  1. Healthy Snacks: Think protein bars, nuts, and fresh fruit to keep those teens fueled.
  2. Reusable Water Bottle: Teens are more likely to keep track of a cool, reusable bottle.
  3. Sports Tape and Ibuprofen: For those minor aches and pains.
  4. Phone Charger: Because we all know how fast their batteries drain.
  5. Extra Gear: A spare pair of socks, batting gloves, and a baseball cap.
  6. Cheering Essentials: Noise makers, pom-poms, and a loud, supportive voice!
Teen Players (Travel Tournaments)
  1. Travel Snacks: Jerky, trail mix, and energy drinks to keep everyone satisfied.
  2. Foldable Chairs: For those long tournament days where comfort is a must.
  3. Weather Gear: Ponchos, umbrellas, and an extra blanket for unpredictable weather.
  4. Toolkit: For quick fixes on gear—think screwdrivers for helmets and extra laces.
  5. Comfort Kit: Neck pillows, eye masks, and cozy socks for downtime.
  6. Map and Schedule: Printouts of tournament schedules and maps, because you never know when tech might fail.
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Relatable and Funny Essentials for All Ages
  1. Mom’s Secret Stash: Chocolate, a good book, or a magazine for those in-between moments.
  2. Noise-Canceling Headphones: For when you need a break from the chaos.
  3. Personal Fan or Cooling Towel: Because being a baseball mom can get HOT!
  4. Mom’s Emergency Kit: Hair ties, lip balm, a nail file, and maybe a tiny bottle of wine for after the game. 😉
Stay ready, stay organized, and most importantly, have fun! You’ve got this, baseball moms! 🌟🧢 #BaseballMomLife #GameDayEssentials #MomBagMagic
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June 30th, 2024

6/30/2024

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You Blow Me Away

1/30/2023

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Facebook memories are often a real treat and I enjoy seeing the things that were important at the time, reliving memories, and smiling knowing we survived it all - so far. Several years ago I post about my joy in nailing the classroom Valentine. My kids -especially my sons - has rules about what they could bring for the class.
Nothing mushy.
Nothing that sounded ANYTHING like converation hearts.
Had to be cool
... you get the idea

I found these nose pencil sharpners and they were a hit! I giggle the entire time that I was putting these gems together - and laughed again today at the thought of it all! I added a tag that read, "You BLOW me away, Valentine" It checked all the boxes and I think I got bonus Mom Points for being gross.

Get your own pencil sharpners Valentine supplies here
Amazon Link for Nose Sharpeners
Amazon Link for Self Seal Bags for gifting
FREE Gift Tag Printable Link

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More Football

10/4/2015

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Here, once you hit 4th grade or so, you can play 7 on 7 football. I honestly don't even know what that means, but the teams are coached by high school football players and they only play half the field. It's very up-beat and fast paced. The high schoolers/coaches hoop and holler and cheer for the boys. There are lots of hive fives and chest bumps. It's a lot of fun to watch. It was until today...

It Poured

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Once the temps in Texas drop to the 80's, it's a sign the fall is on its way. That a good thing. I love fall - a lot. I really like it... every thing about it.  The new school year is on its way, pumpkin everything comes back, the local corn maize is open... 

Being a boy mom in Texas bring fall to a whole new level. I have watched more football the last few weeks that I ever did growing up in a house with just my mom and sister. It's every night, all the time. However, this was my view of the 7 on 6 game today. wrapped in a blanket, huddled under an umbrella.

They Kept Playing

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It's up to the coaches and players if the game stops or if they keep playing. They decided they were wet anyway and kept playing. The high school boys were freezing and didn't have to continue. They could have gone home, gotten warm, eaten a warm home cooked meal with their families, but they choose to make an amazing memory with these boys.

We Stayed

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The parents scattered to get umbrellas and jackets and more blankets and reconvened quickly to watch our boys have the time of their lives. We lined up in along the edge of the field and watched as they slid around and couldn't hold on to the wet ball. The player on our team with glass couldn't see a thing. And they loved it.

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First Home Game - 7th Grade

10/2/2015

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Small town Texas football is a sight to behold. After two games on the road, the big day finally has arrived! After a summer of workouts, drills, and tournaments, it is finally time for my son to use all the skills he has learned on the football field, our football field at home in our town.

After 8 years of playing against the other neighborhood school teams, the 7th grade is finally together. The first game at home is a big one -and comes with a pep rally!  Football boys march in like middle school royalty around the gym giving high fives those student on the front rows of the bleachers that line the square. Dancing and chants and speeches accompanied by loud music and cheers from the middle school faithful. It was a sign to be hold - nothing like what I expected a middle school pep rally to look like. 

With our 7th grader being the oldest, his firsts are our firsts. By the time our 1st grader gets to middle school, we should be pro's. But this day, our first pep rally, I we had no idea what to expect. I arrived first. Nana picked up the youngest. They sat on the other side of the gym. My hubby can't find me and just finds a seat. The joy of being in a small town is that you are never without a friend close by. 

After the spirit competitions, awards for the best "Hip-Hop" dressed, and speeches from the athletes, we moved to the field. By game time it was a mere 90 degrees. Families gathered on the old rickety bleachers at the grass field behind the middle school. The visitors sat on one end and we sat other other, with only one set of bleachers at the middle school. Now that our boys have grown, parents have to move up a few rows to see the game over their heads. The days of sitting in our bag chairs watching them pull flags are over.

These boys are big and at times it seems the boys they are lined up against are even bigger. Sometimes it's all this momma can do to stay on the benches and not share my thoughts (brilliant and insightful as they may be) with those boys.  This day, it seems that they didn't need my advice...

The third game of the season and the first at home, the boys walked away with a 44-0 win.
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